35+ 6'5'' đ curious voyeur đ no contact irl đ„ž just want to play games đ€« NSFW account đ
#estim #edging #bicurious #switch
35+ 6'5'' đ curious voyeur đ no contact irl đ„ž just want to play games đ€« NSFW account đ
#estim #edging #bicurious #switch
I'm still looking for the #estim community here. I do stim for years now (if my first experiments with tens devices count, for more then 20 years). I own an #2B and play with it from time to time, let's say every 4-8 weeks. Over the last years I got into the #milovana #webteases ant try to get through them đ„”. I mostly use a triphase setup (mono anal) a dual plug in my butt and two trodes on my scrotum and dick. Sometimes I experiment with sounds as trodes or with cages.
I'd love to stim a woman, but all I ever played with were not interested.
Ich gehe morgen wÀhlen.
Mit keiner der Parteien bin ich vollstÀndig zufrieden. Muss ich auch nicht sein.
Ich werde die Partei wÀhlen, von der ich annehme, dass sie am ehesten in die richtige Richtung arbeitet, und am seltensten grundsÀtzlich falsche Entscheidungen trifft.
So ist Demokratie. Wer sich jedem Kompromiss verweigert, spielt am Ende nur den Faschos in die HĂ€nde.
Geht wÀhlen.
Forgot to bring my phone into the bathroom with me. So I had to read the shampoo bottleâŠ
Like our ancestors used to do.
A certain kind of man who thinks he is an "alpha" or a "lone wolf" should stop digging.
Other men aren't safe with men.
Bears aren't safe with men.
Women aren't safe with men.
The gender divergent aren't safe with men.
The common problem is a kind of man and the culture of that man.
Did you know that porn addiction isn't a thing?
"If the concept of pornography addiction were true, then porn-related problems would go up, regardless of morality, as porn use goes up. But the researchers didnât find that. In fact, they cite numerous studies showing that even feeling like you struggle to control your porn use doesnât actually predict more porn use. What that means is that the people who report great anguish over controlling their porn use arenât actually using more porn; they just feel worse about it.
Having moral conflict over your porn use (PPMI) does turn out to be bad for you. But that's not because of the porn. Instead, higher levels of moral conflict over porn use predict higher levels of stress, anxiety, depression, and diminished sexual well-being, as well as religious and spiritual struggles. In one study by Perry and Whitehead, pornography use predicted depression over a period of six years, but only in men who disapproved of porn use. Continuing to use porn when you believe that it is bad is harmful. Believing that you are addicted to porn and telling yourself that you're unable to control your porn use hurts your well-being. It's not the porn, but the unresolved, unexamined moral conflict."
TL;DR: Porn addiction isn't a thing, and if you feel harmed by it, you can get help but you're not addicted to porn, you just have something else going on.
Enjoy being horny and enjoying yourself, just know that porn isn't inherently addictive like heroin.
EDIT: I don't know how to say that I'm using heroin as a *metaphor* for how *prudes and conservatives* use view both drugs and pornography. That they are both the same in their eyes, not mine. They don't rally around gambling being a vice as much as natural existence.