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Sucks to be in a culture where shows about the manosphere get money and attention, but resources that provide feminist, inclusive, and entertaining content, that young men like, don't get money or attention.
Thousands of young people visit here everyday to get answers about sex and relationships. Be a part of BISH and help keep this vital resource free and available for everyone. Over the years I’ve had a lot of fans of this website say “I wish this was around when I was younger.” Well, this is [...]Read more →
"The key to enjoyable sex is to do it in ways where you can both be relaxed and excited at the same time. This means that at the very first sign of it feeling a ‘bit much’, you may need to breathe out, slow it down a bit, or try something else."
https://www.bishuk.com/your-questions/can-sex-feel-too-good/
"Let’s be real, when we’re on our phones we are probably not really relaxing. We’re constantly attentive, thinking, clicking, and working. We might be having a sit or a lie down but, we’re probably a bit activated and maybe a bit stressed."
https://www.bishuk.com/relationships/how-can-we-have-a-better-relationship-with-our-phones/
I want to have a better relationship with my phone, so here’s some advice for me and you (if you need it). What do we do with our phones Let’s think about all the different things we do with our phones. Catching up with the news. Chatting with friends. Taking and posting pictures and videos. [...]Read more →
This doesn’t replace ‘before care’ or ‘during care’ but is in addition. From start to finish, in any erotic encounter, there should be care all the way through.
https://www.bishuk.com/sex/aftercare/
And the podcast version, with added theory and complexity is here https://www.patreon.com/posts/151809408?utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=android_share
And here
If something feels good but too good, you can stop. Just like if you are being tickled to death, or laughing so hard it feels too much, or really enjoying a game of table tennis, it’s okay to stop. The ‘should story’ about sex is that sex ‘should’ end in a climax and not just slowly wind down over time. This means that even though with any other activity it’s okay to slowly just calm down and stop, culture tells us that it’s kind of not okay with sex.
https://www.bishuk.com/your-questions/can-sex-feel-too-good/
Our brains and personality and what we think are constantly changing. Even now, as you’re reading this, and now …. and now ……. and now. This pressure (from resolutions) about what we’re going to do in the future distracts us from it. Think about this for yourself, how have you changed over the last year? Made new mates? Learnt something new (either about yourself, people around you). What events have happened, how have you responded?
https://www.bishuk.com/about-you/should-i-make-new-year-resolutions/
