recently something happened within my friend group where all my white queer friends jumped on a cis black man because he made an off-colour incest joke
it was really terrifying, because everyone was digging up (untrue) dirt on him and cutting him off, but i was the only one who went in private and actually talked to him about the joke he'd made
he apologised and understood nigh instantly but i could only watch as these white people descended as vultures on a corpse