@Chaffinch Perhaps have you already tried, but you could ask him why he teases you about your personal choice, to see if he something to say.

That said, having had some periods, sometimes of several months, without any alcohol, I remember the surprise and lack of comprehension, sometime silent but that I could feel, even that can be tiring. Remember that it is a truly personal choice, you don’t have to justify yourself, to anyone.

@arcans That's something I hadn't considered, so asking him might be a good way to start.

And thanks - it feels like I needed to hear that I didn't need to justify my choices. That means a lot.☺