@MaxKriegerVG If it helps, I sincerely like you so far, and would bet money that all your Masto pals do. Lots of us have anxiety, and personally I handle FB this way: if we're FB friends, we answer at least some of each other's posts, and we like pics of each other's kids and pets. If you don't play, I drop you. The kids think I'm too harsh, but it keeps my wall small and interactive. No one collects me to be part of a count, and I don't do that to them. Try it! And hugs.