Moved: -> @[email protected]May 1, 2017

In regards to uh, a Recent Boost, by Trev, about people not "looking the part"

it's so important to stand up against that. "Looking the part" is often an expensive process. "It costs a lot to look this poor" etc. Who "looks the part"? People in my local community have complained about being pushed out of white lgbt spaces for appearing to be "just another working-class puerto rican" which somehow precludes being a Real Queer. What fashions are tied to what cultures? Who gets to "appear gay"?

Show threadSoup-Like Gender Homogenate ✅May 1, 2017
@shel This is something I struggle a bit with as I try to embrace my bi identity a bit more... I shouldn't _have_ to try figure out how to "appear gay", I should just be myself, and that should be enough... *sigh*
Show threadMoved: -> @[email protected]May 1, 2017
@sanspoint yeah like it's difficult to promote "You should be able to explore less gender conforming behaviors and be yourself" while also maintaining "If being comfortable and yourself does not involve becoming bright and colorful then that's fine"
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@shel Thank you!
May 1, 2017 at 7:46pmWeb