I'm learning Japanese (slowly) and I'm having a major problem with 上げる vs 上がる and it's driving me up the wall >.<
@dattmay when say 上げる, someone move it up. saying 上がる, something (or someone) goes up by itself.
we can say 「私は2階に上がる」and we cannot say 「私は2階に上げる」. we can say 「私は荷物を2階に上げる」 and not 「私は荷物を2階に上がる」.