Recently I was sexually abused by a person in the local furry community... people were quick to express their sympathy, and while he's been banned from many groups, there's not enough "evidence" for him to be banned from cons and the like.... I would have to go to the cops for that.
I am ACAB all the way. We can protect ourselves without the help of cops if we come together and hold abusers accountable for their actions. Call them out on their shit, and don't let them wiggle their way out.
Intoxicated or not, what happened to me wasn't okay, and I don't think I can ever forgive or forget. But more than anything, I'm frustrated with society for failing to educate children about consent and healthy relationships.