"High functioning" is just "suffering in a way that is convenient for neuroytpical society"
@dracokitty
Being praised is soooo fucking telling
Ive never gotten praised for having the right kind of headache
Never gotten a pat on the back for having high functioning flu
(Simplified examples i am not actually saying autism is just a "disease" or "illness". But it is how its treated by most)
I swear I have more autistic friends than not lately and I love all of them. It takes learning their way of communicating. But that both people being "high" functioning together. Not just them having to conform to me.
"High functioning" often means devoting huge amounts of energy to masking, unsustainably so, just so as to appear "normal" to the neurotypical world.