If you're "too big for condoms", you're too big for vaginas.

https://lemmy.world/post/47117138

If you're "too big for condoms", you're too big for vaginas. - Lemmy.World

Condoms are designed to adapt to the vast majority of penis sizes, and there are specific sizes that are meant to fit the bigger ones. If you don’t fit into those, you will likely have a lot of trouble fitting into a vagina in the first place. Condoms might feel tighter on you if you’re bigger, but the vast majority of the time they should work as intended. Don’t use your size as an excuse to not use protection. There are condoms made for you that you can get if you put the effort in.

Lube, lube, lube, lube! If you have a penis with some girth to it, learn to use lube. A high quality lube is your friend.

Also, penis length is not the question here. You might think you are average sized or might even think you are on the small side because you judged yourself with a ruler. That’s incorrect. If your dick has the dimensions of a can of soda, you are going to tear some shit up without lube.