Fediverse tip: you donβt always have to say the thing. In fact, in many cases itβs better if you do not say the thing.
Hah! One of the most useful things I learned after discovering the Fedi was basically "see a post, construct a reply, but now go away and chill for a while - maybe roll a fat one or whatever, then come back, and if that reply is not funny to you any more when you get back, then hit the <delete> button. You've then saved a large number of cat-people from having to see whatever that was, and also probably saved yourself some later embarrassment".
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Some if my best toots are the unsent ones π