One of the downsides of being both quaker and straight edge when I used to very much not be is that people think I'm being preaching and shitty about their behavior and no it's I have the lived experience of knowing people who are having a good time and people who are definitely not having a good time with their partying and I just want to shake them about it. I CAN SEE YOU REGRETTING YOUR DECISIONS IN REAL TIME! AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm not judging you for doing the thing, my heart is breaking for you child because I see you not enjoying yourself and getting hurt and spending the next week complaining about it. AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH
I have seen people drink more booze and do more drugs and suck more dick in a night than you do in a year and walk away happy from it, this is not you, aaaahhhhhhh.