What is so super about "Hook Ups"?

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Like i dont seem to get it >.> Like having just meet ups for Sexual Intercourse is just “weird” >.> Like i get it if your like having Sex with your Partner atleast because its your Partner :P But having SEx with STrangers is just like WTF >.> I dont understand it at all tho :c

Not as good as being with someone whom you have a close emotional bond with, but way better than masturbating.

For me i am honestly more of a Fan of honestly just a Fan of Masturbating honestly >.>
Like i do have Friends with “Thicc Bodies” who even made Advances towards me but i was just always like no :(

Just seems weird to me to have Sex with “not your Partner” basically for me :(
Like i am SOMEWHERE on the Ace Spectrum but like itd rather have Sex with my Partner who i trust more and have more of an Emotional Bond with than my Friends >.>

That’s fine because good sex is about intimacy. Intimacy is something reserved for very close people. Sounds pretty normal for somebody with a partner. Hookup culture is maybe a way to help with the loneliness and maybe stumbling into a relationship or even avoiding it.

Anxiously avoidant people for example prefer swapping partners regularly to avoid the emotional bond to their partners forming.

There are asexual people for sure, but there are much more suppressing their urges or preferring to masturbate to avoid closeness.

I dont have a Partner at all XD
Besides i am lonely ut sadly most People just fetishize me and thats just sto gross for me that i cant ever do any kind of Hookups >.>
That’s my point though. Social media is not the place for this. Get a healthy outlet with a professional that can help and knows what you are going through.