Listen, I'm a man. Obviously.
It's easy for me to believe women not because I believe all women tell the truth. I don't. I don't believe most people tell the truth.

But what I do know is that I have never once, in the entirety of my nearly 43 years on this Earth, been accused of sexual harrassment, rape, or any other sexual misconduct. And it's not because I'm celibate. I've been around. But you will never find a woman accusing me of any sexual misconduct or rape of any kind.

So when a man
My dude, you are speaking hard truths. This is something I’ve wanted to say for a long time. It’s not hard, just keep your hands off unless they ask for hands on. The fact that women have a blanket wariness about guys tells you how prevalent SA is. We need statements like yours to be the norm. We need intervention when other guys step out of line to be the norm as well. We need to end male silence and acquiescence over the actions of other guys.
Say something when you see it, do something if needed. This is a mess made by men and men need to clean it up.