One of the approaches that somehow combines the first and second viewpoint is #causalSetTheory . There, one assumes that spacetime is fundamentally discrete, not like a lattice, but more like a random #graph and the edges in this graph represent causal relations (i.e. being in the future or past light cone). Viewed from afar, this might look like a 4-dimensional spacetime, but looked closely, there is only discrete structure. The edges (causal connections) do not only join nearest neighbours, but can reach far along the lightcone, this gives rise to non-trivial effects, and it makes it surprisingly hard to simulate such a causal set (I've tried that once, but without much success).
The causal sets community has produced a 1 hour video to explain these concepts to a general audience interested in #physics
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EoZE1rOHAo


