i wish abled people would realise how often disabled people accomodate them.
@skippingmoonrocks this is a really, really good point! I see this with my husband, who is disabled, and the daily work that's added to his plate, accommodating abled people. Obviously I try to minimise the load for him, but I truly didn't realize just how much work that takes for him until we married and I got to see his daily life properly. Disabled people sacrifice a lot that others don't know about.
@amorablackrose thanks for seeing the load and minimising it where you can. I have a few people like that in my life and their contributions are priceless. <3
@skippingmoonrocks My husband is an incredible man and I'm so thankful for him. The least I can do is try to help where I'm able-goodness knows he helps me enough. Teamwork and all that. Also, why would you not do what you can to make the life of someone you adore easier?(Though what seems like a no-brainer to me isn't always to others. I've seen some truly disgusting behaviour from some people's partners who claim to love and care for them😞) I'm so glad you have solid people💜