@py2toz I'll be interested to see how it goes for you.
I was running meshtastic repeaters in my area, but had all the same issues you mentioned (plus a bunch of jerky behavior by other operators).
I switched to MC in January, and it's a whole new ball game. The local MC mesh is a collaborative effort that now stretches across all inhabited (and many uninhabited) areas of our county. It stretches about 400mi N/S and 150mi E/W at present.
It's a huge amount of progress so far, all of which has involved folks deploying nodes in the dead of winter on pretty rugged terrain.