Dutch non-binary people who had their passport updated: should I get an x or just go with a v?  

An x would be more accurate for me but I could live with a v. I'd like to have more weight behind me when complaining about systems that don't accept nonbinary people (gendering on insurance letters comes to mind) but I don't like the idea of not being able to go to certain countries. I don't want to have to go to court but I don't want to feel like I'm compromising on this either.
And I don't know how to weigh these things against each other.
Would love to hear more viewpoints, tips, experiences, etc