I came across a vid on tiktok that led me to a search for "dating natural predators". There are a LOT of vids by straight cis women describing the experience of dating cis men. Wowza. It sounds terrifying.

I made the recommendation on one that she try dating #TransMen If I were a straight or bi girlie that's what I would do. All the trans guys I've come across have been really sweet, kind and just good looking guys.

But watching about half dozen or so of those videos from the search reinforced in me the idea that sexual orientation is innate. Sure, there's compulsive heterosexuality and many a woman has been able to identify that in herself and move on but beyond that... eeesh. No other explanation that a woman, cis or trans, would seek out a cis man.

To the straight girlies in the dating pool... I'm so sorry. It sounds rough out there. From guys who will hurt you physically to guys who will manipulate you and hurt you emotionally... ugh. (Yeah the second part of that sentence is a #subtoot you sorry fucking rat bastard)

I can't imagine being attracted to and wanting to date my biggest natural predator. May the odds be ever in your favor.
#dating