@DJDarren Masculinity is for being a decent person who puts other people first, and behaves with honesty and integrity. You can also do this with femininity, but masculinity is especially good for people who think they're supposed to always do things in some kind of man way. These people need good role models who aren't spoilt whiny self-entitled failsons.
@isaacfreeman But, like, how is that way of being gendered? What about it specifically makes it so that it must be unique to masculine people?
This is where I’m at. Why is there a societal Way Of Being for people who (mostly) have a penis that MUST differ from the other half of people?
As a Penis-Haver, I’d like to imagine that I cut about in the world in much the same way as a Vulva-Haver, treating people with the kindness and dignity that I would expect to receive, being as helpful as I can offer and generally not being a shithouse. @HG