Would you have a new friend over to hang out after they told you that you were not welcome to hang out at their house?

#AskFedi

I would have them over
12.3%
I would not have them over
64.6%
Something else I’ll comment
23.1%
Poll ended at .
@lifewithtrees
People can have lots of reasons why they are uncomfortable with others in their personal space and many of those reasons will not be related to me, so taking it personally without knowing more is in my view unwarranted and also pressing them to explain themselves is not friendly.
Of course if I later found out some negative reason that *is* personally about me then I'd have to re-assess.