Am I a good rule?
Am I a good rule?
That’s … not a good opener if you want to find yourself a real Domme.
You should be more respectful, at least to begin with.
I’ve found a cocky grin with a “hey” goes really far when hitting on dommes irl. But I also have fuckboi energy so it fits the vibe.
For any fellow subs reading this, you hit on dominant women like any other woman. When it comes time to flirtatiously joke around, then you can make some jokes about being submissive, but you want to have the situation felt out enough that you’re confident that she’s flirting back and that she’s receptive to such jokes. You never want to come off as a pushy sub, a lot of dommes have bad experiences with them (hell, even I, a sub, have had one)
Big time feels.
Also apparently (in my experience) being a male means I’m automatically in charge all the time :(