TotallynotJessicano regrets :3
SolarMonkeyI don’t particularly like being a girl, but I don’t think I would want to be a boy either. I’d like to be fully androgynous (not just NB). Is that an option?
You are what you are, understanding ourselves is difficult for some. For me, I went from ‘I want’ to ‘I am’ in steps. Some of those steps where feeling nothing (agender), to feeling girlish, to being almost certainly being a woman. And it all started (and stayed like that for a loooong time) with just a ‘I would have wanted to be a woman instead of man’. From what I read you may be non-binary without really knowing how to express it, just give it time.
Yeah, maybe thats the case. Idk. I haven’t given it a lot of direct thought. I’ve always had a curiosity about having male organs (masturbation seems a lot easier for one…), but I don’t want to be a man and wouldn’t be able to identify as one, certainly. My hobbies and interests tend to be things people associate with men, but I think it’s just stuff cool people are into in general.
The reason I say I’d like to be fully androgynous is that I’m ace/aro, which took me a solid chunk of my life and a great deal of misery to figure out, and just don’t want sex organs or secondary sex characteristics at all. I want to be the sex/genderless baseline generic human bodyprint that I feel like. I’m not using them (genuinely don’t think my vag even works anymore, haven’t tried in years), don’t need them, so don’t really want them. Tried to get a hysterectomy so at least I wouldn’t have to deal with anything related to that, but I’m healthy and have no offspring so they wont go for it.
Im not sure it rises to the level of dysphoria, though, more like a preference, and one nobody would likely take particularly seriously.
Tried to get a hysterectomy so at least I wouldn’t have to deal with anything related to that, but I’m healthy and have no offspring so they wont go for it.
The cultural expectations around people “needing” to reproduce are so fucked.
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