Good info. According to the DSM, I am dangerously addicted to WORK. 9/9 yes.
Do you think about WORK when not doing WORK? YES
Do you feel bad (sad, anxious) when unable to do WORK? YES
Do you find yourself spending more time/money on WORK? YES
Do you notice you’ve kept doing WORK even when you meant to stop or cut back? YES
Have you given up other hobbies/activities to do WORK? YES
"male perpetrators reliably describe [their abuses as] a fetish. This was Dominique Pelicot’s self-diagnosis, and it is, tellingly, Christian Ulmen’s too. Both of these men even reached for the language of addiction." --Kate Manne
... Why treating obsession as an addiction is sometimes an evasion of responsibility
@lisarue that does indeed sound worrying. You feel sad or anxious if you can't work? You neglect family or health for work?
FWIW, people identifying entirely with their job and grinding themselves down to a nub leads to all sorts of issues, whether it's classified as an addiction or not.
(I dunno if you expect a pack on the back for being so dedicated, or if you're trying to point out a societal problem..?)
@ashesx2xashes @lisarue If only you had a healthy social security system, strong (or any) unions, a functioning healthcare system etc. Which I was alluding to with my “are you trying to point out a societal problem”.
The OP is a CTO according to their bio, so I doubt they are struggling to make ends meet. And this “I am expected to / want to spend all my free time working” is a very American attitude. (Also a societal problem…)
@clarissawam thanks for checking in I'm being funny about the definition of addiction! I invest a lot in my work but I'm extremely lucky in my work.
I agree it's a societal problem, work demands so much that people whose job is not their calling (and it shouldn't have to be!) would answer the same, not due to addiction, but because Western society structures jobs as nearly "total institutions". I wasn't clever enough to tie it into a societal problem so I'm glad you did so.
@taylorlorenz and yet here I sit with 2500 hours of Binding of Isaac logged to my Steam account. And somehow I’m not addicted to crack
Edit: yet