Ah ha!!! I ordered the display with a font chip, which has an 8x16 font on.
After much work that now works fine, giving me 37 lines per screen by 128 characters.
It does have a Yen/Yuan symbol instead of a dollar, but there is a variable width font with the dollar, so I can in theory swap the Yen/Yuan for a dollar on the fly later in assembly.
The viewing angle and contrast on this panel is also fa better than the previous one, image is a bit washed out still.
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Took another photo, tweaked settings to get the colours closer to the display.