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Know the difference

https://sh.itjust.works/post/57567516

Mar 28 at 6:00pmWeb
Show threadZombiFrancis6d ago
Alternatively: drink sixty bottles of wine.
Show threadJCSpark6d ago

Nope, don’t think I like this. No one should have to materially change themselves to conform to a relationship. That’s a clear lack of boundaries on their part. At the same time, no one should have to allow themselves to be abused (or poked).

Recognizing when something isn’t working, or there are just too many incompatibilies, is a sign of self awareness and personal growth.

This image doesn’t show a healthy relationship dynamic, and I think that just needs to be acknowledged.

Show threadhitmyspot6d ago

I think it’s less about changing, more about being mindful of how you affect others and what you can do about that.

Sure, if you’re incompatible, best to recognise that, but sometimes habits or attitudes that aren’t part of your identity can be avoided or tempered.

Show thread🍉 Albert 🍉6d ago

i get that vibe too.

no one should be with someone if the relationship is basically forcing them to be someone else.

Show threadEntertainmeonly6d ago

Step one: be with someone.

Fuck.

Show thread🍉 Albert 🍉6d ago

they’re are a lot of someones outside, try putting a cake under a box propped up with a stick, tie the stick to a string. and when someone goes for the cake, you pull the string.

enjoy your new loving partner

Show threadWorldsDumbestMan6d ago

What is this shit, guess I’m supposed to marry this ferret?

1/10 horrible dating advice.

Show thread🍉 Albert 🍉6d ago
Mazel tov to you and your ferret husband.