If you feel the need to add "ethical" in front of non-monogamous, you are implying polyamory is not ethical by default and I'm judging you.

Non-ethical polyamory doesn't exist. It's just cheating.

@trinityblair πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ» needed to be said! I DESPISED seeing this term on dating apps, it's such a virtue signaling fake distinction
@trinityblair β€œENM” is always such a red flag because *every single time* I’ve indulged it, it’s just loaded down with weird patriarchal hangups and I’m always going to be treated like a side piece, not a partner or friend or equal. It’s very β€œyour feelings don’t matter and I’ll toss you aside the second hubby says no.”