i really wish folks here would be just a little more direct about others' behaviors

maybe im just excessively sensitive about them, but i dont think subposts do anything productive at all

i really do appreciate feedback on my behavior, and i dont want anyone to need to feel nervous giving it

some things arent obvious to everyone, even if they seem obvious to you

i'd really appreciate a dm or something before getting blocked/remove-followed, otherwise i have no idea what i did wrong (although ive tried dming others before blocking them in the past, and it is quite exhausting)

idk


edit: i want to make it very clear that this is not about anyone specifically. if something did happen recently, this post was coincidental.
@kemona_halftau imho subposts aren't meant to solve anything directly; they're usually just a form of venting and that's okay

treating them as more than that will just make beings who need a place to vent without the involved person really knowing its them feel bad