tunmi13Am I wrong for thinking all these posts couples make about their status, things they do, thanks, anniversaries, that sort, are a little excessive? Those are memories you share between the two of you. I never understood the whole, broadcast thing. Now by no means am I saying I don't care. I am more saying, your relationship is a bond, a symbol, something deep. It doesn't flourish on a social media platform.
@tunmi13 Okay so I'm in the middle. I don't mind appreciation posts. like hey my partner did thing 1 and thing 2 and wow that was really sweet. That's cute. I don't mind date night posts. that's fucking adorable. I did have an x who got weird because I didn't post every day and tell the world how much I loved them. They would mention me and be like tell Mariah how pretty she is or some such and I was like no. I can't dol this. And they thought I was hiding something. I'm not, but I'm also somewhat private when it comes to my relationships. I might post about my partners every so often but it's not an every day thing.
@MariahL Oh yeah appreciation posts are fine. Quick off-hand mentions and whatnot are okay. But I'm talking about those who would rather spill everything. While people may think it's beautiful, once that break up hits, those posts don't necessarily vanish... In fact I think it's just taunting your future self. "See all the things you guys did together? See how it's all out there? That's what happened. Tough luck. In the end it's between the couple but... I find it overboard.