i really wish folks here would be just a little more direct about others' behaviors

maybe im just excessively sensitive about them, but i dont think subposts do anything productive at all

i really do appreciate feedback on my behavior, and i dont want anyone to need to feel nervous giving it

some things arent obvious to everyone, even if they seem obvious to you

i'd really appreciate a dm or something before getting blocked/remove-followed, otherwise i have no idea what i did wrong (although ive tried dming others before blocking them in the past, and it is quite exhausting)

idk


edit: i want to make it very clear that this is not about anyone specifically. if something did happen recently, this post was coincidental.

@kemona_halftau in my case, most of the times i remove a follow is not because the person has done anything bad, but because my home timeline is too crowded and i felt like cleaning up a bit

i dont know if many more people do that, but i do. If i ever unfollow you without there being an obvious explanation, dont think too deep about it, since the reason was likely that (cleaning up my home timeline) and not that you did anything wrong

@Sorro by remove-follow i dont mean unfollow, i mean manually removing a user from your followers (equivalent of them unfollowing you)