FFS #Apple

“With iOS 26.4, Apple Family Sharing allows individual adult members to use their own personal payment methods for purchases, rather than being forced to use the family organizer's card. When Purchase Sharing is on, adults can set a personal card as default, with the organizer's card used only as a backup.”

Wrong way around, as “organiser” of family I want to say the others cannot use my card! It is my card so I should have the control not them, arg!

Am I being subtle enough?