@futurebird reminded of the fact that monsanto and lockheed martin have some of the best pay and conditions for disabled employees;
and that if a diabled or trans person gets found out about where they work they reliably get hounded off the internet while the non disabled cis people who work there are left completely alone.
Well that's typical. This is why I have mixed feeling about giving people who are in the military a hard time (not as great for trans folk but there are a lot of working class people who end up on that route)
What you are talking about is transphobia using "you work for the arms dealer" as the excuse.
I'm talking about something deeper and less about hounding people out of doing such jobs... rather it's a weight, that comes with such work.
That's why I mentioned undertakers.
I do think it's always best to NOT be a cop, solider, arms designer or manufacture if at all possible. With the army many of the "benefits" of the job "it can pay for your degree" don't really work out as planned.
Is an arm manufacture really a great place to work if you are trans? Is it a supportive environment? I'd expect it to suck more than most jobs.
Even if they do have benefits. There is always a cynical reason.