My disability is most notable when people are in range of seeing and/or hearing me in real life.
They see me, and most see something wrong.
They hear me, and many want me to shut up, 'calm down' speak quieter, 'dont interrupt' no delay in my responses, and hear speech clearly.
I wish visible words were generally accepted as a primary form of communication for some people.
I struggle to get along with most people, because they talk too fast, have invisible languages, and they hate repeating.
What state are you in?
Oregon is the fastest talking state. >.>
Its why I think everyone is known for being “quirky” in Oregon…. And also why its 51/51 in mental health… 😬
@Energetic_Nova If only we had text-based communications recognized as a necessary accommodation for some people. I dont know how to use the AAC program, I could use handwritten notes. I got that once, and I felt so happy, he would say the sentence/question and write it down, slide the notepad to me and I speak the answer. That was so helpful.
If only society would get out of their bigotry and kindly help disabled people more than they are. Meds and psyche units are not always the best options.
I think the issue is the systematic help is poorly constructed… I’m in Washington state and its near last place in mental health.
When I went to California… those people were so much more friendly in a stereotypical way. It was weird for me.
@Energetic_Nova I fear going outside, people call the cops, thinking I need to be taken away. I've had people say to me, "you should go to a mental ward"
I been in them, involuntarily. They dont help, they abuse me, but claim to be helping. They dont help to improve my life, and they reward me with early release if I attend groups, but groups feel like I'm participating in kindergarten, with puzzles and coloring pages.
They drug me, expect me to not be anxious. I fear people I dont know.
Washington and Oregon have too few beds to waste them on anyone not criminal. We need supportive housing. Tell them that.
@Energetic_Nova yeah. I need my own home, to choose my own time to sleep, choose my own food, choose my own entertainment, and not be bogged down by people I dont get along with. 'they' think I need to go into a group home.
I never want to live in a group home. The rules would cause me significant health damage, physical damage.. like what I get in psyche units.
@Energetic_Nova (ran out of character space)
I currently have my own home with a few people I get along with, also disabled... I still am waiting to get the right kind of help. Been over a year since Regional Center was contacted by a social worker and ten years before that I was made aware of Regional Center but the refusal for text-based communcation (phone only) kept me from getting the help I need. Help I dont need is a common assumption, bathing, meal making, dressing. Ugh.
Well, I’m actually having problems with a lot of the most basic living things but I also have a high IQ so I seem like I don’t need it but I’m just now getting into contact with DDA. And I would agree that it is definitely more focused on stuff I don’t need than it is stuff I do which is mental stimulation. The intellectual sort of mental stimulation and they seemed a little confused by my ask of something like figure skating or karate
But I know what you mean about a need for domestic services. I think the majority of us seem to need somebody to wash the dishes and help us at least initially organize our living space. Because most of us can keep organization but I think a lot of of us struggle to make the organization in the first place
I think the good thing about only needing domestic sorts of services means that they don’t need to use medical professionals to get you the help that you need. You should be logically easier to help actually.
Also like I’m asking for companion services and integration into the community. And though my state offers it it’s like I don’t know kind of weird? I’m being left uncertain about if they’re going to on that.
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