i really wish folks here would be just a little more direct about others' behaviors

maybe im just excessively sensitive about them, but i dont think subposts do anything productive at all

i really do appreciate feedback on my behavior, and i dont want anyone to need to feel nervous giving it

some things arent obvious to everyone, even if they seem obvious to you

i'd really appreciate a dm or something before getting blocked/remove-followed, otherwise i have no idea what i did wrong (although ive tried dming others before blocking them in the past, and it is quite exhausting)

idk


edit: i want to make it very clear that this is not about anyone specifically. if something did happen recently, this post was coincidental.
im very guilty of this myself and i hate it ​

i just wish it wasnt so exhausting to dm someone before blocking them or remove-following them

at a certain point it just feels rude, and not everyone handles criticism the same way
@kemona_halftau to me, I dont like it when people say "in going to unfollow you" or smth like that, I rather said person just does it
@gen yep. a lot of folks are the same way