i really wish folks here would be just a little more direct about others' behaviors

maybe im just excessively sensitive about them, but i dont think subposts do anything productive at all

i really do appreciate feedback on my behavior, and i dont want anyone to need to feel nervous giving it

some things arent obvious to everyone, even if they seem obvious to you

i'd really appreciate a dm or something before getting blocked/remove-followed, otherwise i have no idea what i did wrong (although ive tried dming others before blocking them in the past, and it is quite exhausting)

idk


edit: i want to make it very clear that this is not about anyone specifically. if something did happen recently, this post was coincidental.

@kemona_halftau to me, subposts are a way to express how you felt about something someone said, without the fallout of either
without getting thrown into the fire with everyone piling on at once, because we live in a society;

and .. without it turning into some stupid argument, that makes both of us feel miserable and we get nowhere because if im being honest that is the response 99% of the time when i try explain or call out things tbh ...

i dont often block anyone over them, though i suppose that has happened a few times,