Amber  (aka kemona_halftau)Mar 25
i really wish folks here would be just a little more direct about others' behaviors

maybe im just excessively sensitive about them, but i dont think subposts do anything productive at all

i really do appreciate feedback on my behavior, and i dont want anyone to need to feel nervous giving it

some things arent obvious to everyone, even if they seem obvious to you

i'd really appreciate a dm or something before getting blocked/remove-followed, otherwise i have no idea what i did wrong (although ive tried dming others before blocking them in the past, and it is quite exhausting)

idk ​​

edit: i want to make it very clear that this is not about anyone specifically. if something did happen recently, this post was coincidental.
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@kemona_halftau I've been on both sides of this, and while I too would appreciate someone just directly telling me how I fucked up, the last few folks I quietly unfollowed were a case of "I don't actually owe you an explanation for my boundaries."

But subposts and softblocks are passive aggressive as fuck and nightmare fuel for anyone with RSD, and I would love to see it more generally agreed to just not do it.

Mar 25 at 2:53amWeb