TheOrcWhoWritesWhat are some tips to level up your social life?
justdaveisfineTo ask a dumb question, where do you feel you’re struggling when it comes to talking to random people?
Is it striking up a conversation, maintaining a conversation, or just generally trying to be more approachable?
Being more approachable seems like the problem I am having.
AskewLordThe key is to get out of your head — thinking about what you want or feel — and take someone else’s perspective. How can you help someone without expecting anything in return? How are others thinking and feeling? What do they need?
You’ll be amazed at the difference.