violet081d ago

What’s the thought process behind trash-talking someone while simultaneously wanting to be with them?

https://lemmy.world/post/44674277

What’s the thought process behind trash-talking someone while simultaneously wanting to be with them? - Lemmy.World

My ex has been ranting to people about how I’m such a slut, while at the same time pestering me about him coming to Switzerland to see me and getting back together. I don’t get this mindset.

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Hello from Switzerland 👋

Agree with all the other comments, that’s just manipulative. I guess he’s also hurt, but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. I’ve also been hurt in the past and I understand the impulse to lash out, but it doesn’t lead anywhere if you do, so… better keep your distance.

Mar 24 at 10:27amWeb