i would really like to not be called "man" and "dude" constantly in nudel

i would really like people to stop chatting to 12 year olds in nudel

i will destroy nudel

#pastagang

@TodePond it shouldn't have those capabilities
@jackie agreed!
@TodePond in saying that, my apologies for kinda minimising what i know is the experience of terrible suffering and humiliation of misgendering
@jackie @TodePond which capabilities?
@cutesobri @TodePond that's an exercise for the reader with a keen interest in cultural perspectives on computing
@jackie @TodePond unless we change code to not be text, which would actually be pretty cool. Then it's going to have a chat ability, but it's going to be like completely public. So it's at least 50 times safer than most places on the internet.
@cutesobri @TodePond i have actually never used the software because i got hearing damage livecoding with a different thing on my phone. i'm just here to provide a totally disconnected perspective