@yacc143 @woozle @dave For that kind of material, it's the number of separate posts you have to mute that's bad - though if you . As few as five can more than ruin your day if it's not the first time round (let's face it: the wrong individual one can) and having to manually filter to get to anything else in your notifications is a thing. Especially when you're a normal enough user that it's not routine to you to start by looking at mentions only.
Stop thinking like a Twitter/X survivor and start thinking like a normal (if hopefully more aware) human being about this stuff. As you say, "normal usage" isn't supposed to include this shit happening to you, but you have to do the work to ensure that's not the case for any given category of people.
(and yeah, I have to admit I twitch in the aftermath every time I say something funny in response to a particular mutual and that's not even anything nasty coming my way: while I once made a particular high-profile list, I literally had worse on usenet)