@karolherbst conservative movements will always appear more accepting because they are built on cognitive dissonance, misinformation, and are fundamentally reactionary and exist to prevent things from getting done. They have no need to build consensus because they’re not trying to achieve anything. We’re fighting with the unfortunate constraints of having to be logically consistent, have principles, and actually have goals and do things that take effort and require team work
@danirabbit I question that it's actually what matters tho. Those often feel like artificial constraints we put upon ourselves. Like not disagreeing that fundamentally we should be able to prove why it's the better direction, but good arguments won't let you win a debate if the other side has a good story to tell.
@karolherbst that’s why you never debate Nazis. You can’t win a game of chess against a pigeon. They’re not playing a winnable game, they’re just in it for chaos and destruction
@karolherbst it’s like we’re trying to build a house and we have to create consensus and make decisions about the materials and floor plan and do things to code and raise funds.
They don’t have to agree on anything except “don’t build a house”. So their tent can include people who think houses are too expensive and people who think houses are the work of satan or give you cancer or turn you gay. It doesn’t matter. They don’t need to agree because they’re not trying to achieve anything
@karolherbst they’ve gotten really good lately at singling out the people that care about building to code and turning to the budget folks and going “building to code is expensive! You should hate those guys!” for example.
It would be a lot easier if we could at least get everyone on our side to say, “Hey maybe we shouldn’t listen to the guys on team don’t-build-a-house” but it’s constantly instead “well I want to build a house but they sure have a good point about plumbing being woke and gay”
@danirabbit abusing everybody's fear is sure an effective way to rally up people against something.
And I wished I had a good answer what to do about this, because you can't really do much about emotional behavior like this.
It's just part of the entire "turn everything shit, so people act more impulsively and stop thinking" thing everybody can fall victim to.
And I'd gladly do everything possible to address those fears, sadly... there isn't really much we can do individually anyway.