Oh for crying out loud...

GROW UP!

You chose to speed. Losing your licence was not a trauma. You did not lose your independence, you had to find other ways to get around because you do not have any god-given right to drive wherever you want whenever you want at whatever speed you want. And seriously, caught five times and you didn't notice the demerits building up? Suddenly there's a letter telling you you're licence is suspended?

GROW UP!

https://www.rnz.co.nz/news/national/590206/former-wellington-mayor-dame-kerry-prendergast-admits-to-having-driver-licence-suspended
Former Wellington mayor Dame Kerry Prendergast admits to having driver licence suspended

Dame Kerry Prendergast said she was "shocked" by the suspension, as she had not noticed the demerit points adding up over two years,

RNZ