I think cuz I'm so surrounded by queer media, part of me forgets that it is still socially unacceptable for many and it's sad
@18trip for real me too. I recall being in middle school and people would come up to me to ask if I was a f*g and then they'd tell me to kms. Like they don't do that online so I keep forgetting I'm in enemy territory💔
@yaotsuri I know it's straight up insane whenever you are outside and hear the shit people say even if it's not direct homophobia it makes me so sad
@18trip for realll and like sometimes relative just throw the slur around in front of me and say "I mean it in a funny way" like. You also can avoid slurs even as a joke. That's how easy it is. The other day I was looking at a post about how disney removed LGBTQ+ scenes and people were like "good riddeance this is POISONING our children" ??? Like... and people using religion too... I'm religious and I never found the LGBTQ+ to be anything to hate or be scared of. We're all just humans.
@yaotsuri religion has alwaysss been used as an excuse to not support LGBTQ+ and it's so embarrassing because if you were to say you don't support their religion cuz of that "rule" they would come after you. I will never understand that 😭 being religious has NOTHING to do with rights of others but people are actually so damn evil n cannot get themselves to accept others that way... they really do forget that there are literally religious people who are queer aagh
@18trip right! I'm Christian and I was never taught homophobia so it came as a shook to me that people will weaponise it against LGBTQ+ and like I read the lines supposed to justify the hate. They're out of context. They're mistranslations. What more can I say? Oh yeah, it keeps being debunked and also there's so many verses about loving others and stuff. People just hate to hate and that's really sad. I feel for everyone who has been hurt because of this stupid rethoric.
@yaotsuri YEAH LITERALLY it's straight up bullshit... my old school was surrounded with people like that and I also know someone who keeps saying they respect gay people but don't support them Like #WatDatMean
@18trip you can't respect people and not support them. There's so much bullshitting that's crazy. Sending lots of love to youu
@yaotsuri THIS IS KIND OF OFF TOPIC SORRY BUT IM LIKE WONDERING do you use any other socials aside from mastodon at the moment?
@18trip uhhh I had insta and fb but I removed them... I have like... I don't know what really counts as socials? Honestly I used insta every day for years but they're removing encryption so like. I'm in this awkward stage when I just have a bunch of messaging apps. I wanna find more socials tho... I have reddit and tumblr, does that count? Idk😭 but I'm open to requests, I'd download anything lmao
@yaotsuri OH I SEE I'm not informed on insta at all cuz I use it once in a blue moon tbh what does that mean? I WAS JUST CURIOUS what you use to see if I could get on it too I could follow ur Tumblr though!

@18trip basically encryption makes sure that the only people who can see your chats is you and whoever you're texting. But starting may they're making sure the chats are read by AI and accessible by the compagny itself.

And I use reddit, tumblr (barely), and uh... honestly I was a big insta user but I'm looking for alternatives. I have shit tons of messaging apps tho😭 my tumblr is yaotsuri but I don't post much on it haha

@yaotsuri wtf really? that's so annoying. I really hate how everything tries to make anything be controlled by ai, they really don't want us to have anything to ourselves. I will check out ur Tumblr someday and let u know when I follow!!! I never use that too don't worry HELP
@18trip yeah that really sucks. They're taking our privacy away day by day and I think we really need to build communities away from them. Anyways, what socials do YOU have? I can adapt lolol🥹 I hope I don't come accross as deperate (I am. I wanna make friends. Hi)
@yaotsuri I dont really have much im active in... the most i use is discord for priv dms and the rest is just for content tbr 🥲🥲
@18trip dammittt I also deleted discord😭😭😭