Disco Elysium is basically the only Western-style choice-based RPG that has broken through to me, I normally have trouble with them and get stuck in choice paralysis
I think the things that helped in Disco Elysium were:
* A character so incredibly different from me that I felt comfortable making choices I didn't agree with
* Very little designed to trick you into making a Big Morally Grey Decision which you think is justified but has deliberately-hidden consequences
* Silliness and multiple editorial voices from the narrator that show how decisions fit with aspects of your character
* Randomness
Do you think it's worth me trying Esoteric Ebb?