This was great!

"people help each other when they're in a relationship. You know you're in a relationship because somebody helps you.
The way to get into a relationship is to help somebody. The relationship continues if there's continued offers of help in that way.
So this is something that doesn't need design, and [..] I like to say… always use the word relationship with a ship in it. Um, I think designers can design relations. They cannot design relationships."

-- @camerontw