Am I right to be afraid of germs / is my family disgusting or am I overreacting and this is germaphobia? (read post) - sh.itjust.works

So my parents take the trash can and put it TOUCHING the table where you put food… in order to clear the table, and sometimes they FORGET TO WASH THEIR HANDS after TOUCHING THE TRASH CAN and then start touching other stuff… sometimes even cooking stuff… one time I even saw the trash can ON TOP OF THE FUCKING TABLE so its supposedly easier to put the stuff into the teash can… And even if they wash their hands… they often times (most of the time) DO NOT USE SOAP… Sometimes they take the trash can and move it around to collect trash WHILE INGREDIENTS ARE LYING AROUND… like what if you accidentally stuff from the trash can just like… hops over the gap and contaminate stuff? Like dont fucking get the trash can so close to food FFS Also they sometimes (VERY OFTEN) don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom… I hear them touching the bathroom lids… Also they put used toilet paper in a trash can… sometimes I hears mom touch that trash can withou t washing hands… My parents tell me I’m being germophobic… I’m not crazy am I? Is this just how most people life? The fuck?