I believe that when you’re overstimulated, you should appear somewhat grayed out, and no one should be able to interact with you like a locked character in a video game.
@kiki NEED
@maddy @kiki seconded. if I were translucent perhaps, or had a discreet pattern of dotted lines projected over me, something like that ... I can think of other ways!
@kiki i’d like a cooldown icon above my head, so people know if they just need to go make a cup of tea, or if they need to come back next week
@kiki Yes, except bestie can still interact. She fixes overwhelm and overstim.
@kiki I really love that idea!
@kiki where do I sign up for the the beta for this?
@kiki just like if your'e occupied with something on say headphones, and are walking wirelessly, one of those, talking at people lights shows up above your head.

@kiki
I call it "zombie mode".
It doesn't feel like gray, it's like my brain runs in kernel panic from all input buffers overflowing, spilling mess all over the floor.
Just minimum cognition online. I can react. I can hear you. But I don't understand what you want from me. I will forget most of what you say. I refuse decisions.

Let me flee, or leave me alone. And, hell, DON'T provoke me to eat your soul — after all, I'm a zombie, sorrow is offline. 🥴

Sounds funnier than it feels.

@kiki "You need [30] spoons to unlock this character"
I feel like I kinda do this.
I stopped masking my open feelings of being
overwhelmed and agitated.

Like i let my hands move, and don't try to close
my open mouth and glazed expression.
It kinda is like being greyed out.

It's like that whole thing of I don't need to make
it easier for other people, when they are the ones
making it difficult for me.
@kiki "This person is busy."
@kiki This would solve so many of my problems.
@kiki smh you should be able to set interaction settings where you can spell out exactly what ways (if anything) someone can interact with you at all..
@Li Yes, please. That would make things so much easier all around.
@kiki what if ive thought about this like .. alot and its like .. mmm thsi would be so nice can we find a way to change physics so its like this ...
@kiki also the noise of your fan should get very loud