i always thought it weird when i met cis guys who are adamant they absolutely must have kids but are not open to the idea of adoption

because in my view they're just making plans for someone else's body
this has always been my spiciest opinion and guys always debated me fiercely on that
"it has to be a decision made by both people in the couple" sure dude but in the end the decision that matters is that of the person who will carry the child. if they're not up for it then it's not your place to decide
@peachymist Well then they aren’t compatible with each other, different life plans
@luana i agree, but i see so many guys trying to force their own plans on their partners. i had first hand experience with that, and god am i glad i got out of that relationship