That's it!
That's it!
So both groups hate some of their fellow human beings. It is not a noble position to take. It's like sports, where fans are crazy for one team, ignoring the fact that both teams are composed of the same thing: people.... They are simply wearing different uniforms. But this is more serious than sports.
Could you now explain the inverse:
Who do they LOVE?
Do you automatically hate white men with wealth?
If you examined WWII records, I think you would see there were men of this class imprisoned in Nazi concentration camps. So, no, men would not automatically be "loved" by fascists for simply belonging to a certain demographic.