i honestly can't sing the praises of mistserver enough as a discord replacement from the streaming angle, at least 1:1 with another person (alongside using signal for voice/video/chat)

https://mistserver.org/

@scarlet_somnus was streaming via obs using the whip protocol to my server from the UK (my server is sitting on my desk in minnesota) and we were consistently at less than 1 second of latency with a good quality, stable stream

#mistserver #discord #signal #obs #streaming

if you're interested, feel free to message me with questions

it took me a single afternoon to set it up on my debian web server that has nothing but apache running otherwise

and i am not someone who heavily uses self-hosted solutions at all and i was able to get it going

#mistserver #discord #signal #obs #streaming

at this point i have zero reason to ever use discord again